11 Secrets Guys Told About Sex
The editors chose the most interesting and honest guys - 23-year-old Viktor, 19-year-old Yegor, 24-year-old Anton, 18-year-old Oleg - and one by one called them to account so that they would not cheat each other :) You will surely notice that some of their thoughts are repeated. This only suggests that, most likely, this is not their subjective opinion, but the general boy's position. Jump here for more details about sex.
Victor: Some stupid girls really only need one thing. "Stupid" is the key word here. A day is enough for me to understand how interesting a person is. And yes - with me, as with most guys, stories without continuation happened, of course.
It also happened that my girlfriend and I met for 2 weeks - and, in general, our "relationship" was based on sex alone. No romance. And nothing interesting. It gets boring quickly.
Anton: You want different things from different girls. The main thing in this matter is how the young lady positions herself. With cheeky girls, this is a completely predictable option. If she makes it clear in every possible way that she is ready for anything right away, why do you need to wish for something more?
Egor: Girls are different - some for relationships, and others for sex. It takes me 10 minutes to understand if a particular young lady catches me - after that it is quite difficult to change my mind. If she didn’t impress me, not to say that everything was lost with her, she would even gain something. At the same time, if it’s boring with her, sex ... Well, the same as with yourself - just a little better ...
Oleg : Most of the girls are right: boys, after all, only need one thing. But there are also exceptions. I just got it - I have just a rare case. For now, I have to limit myself to romantic walks.
How Long Are You Ready To Date A Girl Without Sex?
Victor: I am young and handsome - why do I need an inferior relationship? At the age of 17, I could wait for a girl for a long time. Then I had similar stories.
With one in general, it happened: I ran after her for a year, and she ignored me and talked to some horror stories. But after a while we changed roles - she started chasing me, and at that moment this girl had already become uninteresting to me. Only six months later, she achieved something from me. But everything did not last long: I did not experience any buzz from our relationship.
In general, I have deduced the following pattern. When you are 17, if you have someone, then you can do without sex, and if not with someone, then you certainly want to. As for the girls' arguments, I have never heard phrases like “Sorry, I'm not ready”. I guess I was just lucky.
And in my opinion, the objective reason for the lack of sex is some kind of disease. If a girl refuses because she thinks of this particular relationship as something temporary, then sex does not bother her at all. And it turns out that every time she will have to be persuaded. Few people will like it. I dated my current girlfriend without a bed for four months. But it was a strategic decision.
.Anton: It all depends on age. At 16-17 years old you can wait a long time, and at 25 - already two weeks. In principle, I understand that psychologically a girl may not be ready for sex, which means that the relationship is not yet serious enough. In this case, how soon everything will happen depends on how the guy behaves. True, I must say, now I speak on behalf of most guys. I've been waiting for my current girlfriend for a long time - I won't even specify how much.
Egor: It's okay to wait three weeks. More ... This is possible if you like the girl well, oh-oh-very much, or if you have someone on the side. In my opinion, there are no compelling reasons for giving up sex (we are not talking about diseases - these are obvious things) - for the most part, all these are left-wing excuses.
How Important Is The Atmosphere During Sex To You?
Victor: I wish the music from the Fallout game was a permanent soundtrack to love. Ideally, sex should last exactly as long as these tracks last - about 40 minutes. I've made a huge mistake - I told my girlfriend about this trick, and now she is opposed to her
Anton: I don't need music, neither do candles. I just want to be calm. In my opinion, guys are rarely driven about this.
Egor: The main thing for me is that I am not very tired. And so the girl herself - this is actually the whole atmosphere.
Oleg:I don't like bright lights - all the intrigue is lost. And I am calm about the rest of the moments